Parents make promises that they will remain with you in all ups an downs of life,when life takes a U turn..u will find all the ppl who were there with you in all your goodtime leave u at your own.

They will give you different solutions to get rid of the problem ,say big thingz as if its very easy to implement.

In the feeling of despair no one is yours,u are all alone facing the troubles of life.but when you were the king,these ppl saluted you,now i don understand why my own family takes an about turn and just walks away,or gives the solution best possible which is to get settled in personal life,mind you haan in times of crisis or leave the problem as such as come back to them.

they are not concerned about your feelings,aout them they shd not hear any tension from anyside about you, especially if you are a gal.

I hate hypocritic familes who at times say they are with you but at times of difficulty,they turn .Siblings also are not apart ,they advocate on the verge of family against you most of the times.

eventually one who is in problem keeps thinking whether shez done something wrong,or shd change ways or settling down is the solution.

Noboby realises why we pressurising so much,since the gal is going through bad times.
They are just the advisors.No one can realise and understand other's position unless he/she is in other's shoes.

But this is India,gals are never treated like that the way they shd be.